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Can my pet be in his or her bed or other favorite place during the
euthanasia?
Absolutely! Your pet can be anywhere that you think they will
be most comfortable as long as we have easy access to their limbs for the
catheter placement. We can even do the euthanasia outside in most
cases. It is best to have something like a towel or
blanket underneath them, however, as most animals will release their
bladder and bowels during the euthanasia.
Should my kids be present?
That is a personal decision and depends on the age of the child.
Most people feel that children under the age of 5 are too young to
be present during the actual euthanasia but may benefit from seeing
the pet afterwards. An excellent article about children and
pet euthanasia can be found here:
www.griefhealing.com/article18.htm
Should my other pets be present?
If you have another pet that is deeply bonded to your dying pet,
it may help to either have them present during the euthanasia or
have them smell the body afterwards. Like people, animals show
their feelings in many different ways, and some may not show
outwards signs of grief while others are more withdrawn after the
loss.
What if I want to burn incense, read a poem, or pray during the
euthanasia?
Our services are completely non-denominational, and any type of
ceremony is welcomed. The idea is for this time to be peaceful
and calming to your pet, so plan any activity accordingly. Be
sure and let us know if you have any special plans so that we are
prepared.
Can my pet be cremated with his or her favorite toy?
Yes, as long as it is not very heavy and does not contain metal.
Any collars that contain metal will also need to be removed prior to
cremation. (Local animal shelters are often in need of clean
collars, beds, and bowls if you decide not to keep your pet's
belongings.)
Is there anything I can do to help memorialize my pet
afterwards?
There are many ways to pay tribute to your pet after he or she
dies. Here are a few that come to mind: frame a picture of
your pet, plant a tree, make a donation to an animal charity, or
write a letter to your pet. You may wish to have a memorial
service and invite people that knew your pet to come share a story
or memory. Check out our resources
page for companies that make custom urns and memorial stones, as
well.
When should I get another pet?
It is tempting to quickly get another pet to fill the void you
are feeling after a pet dies. You may feel compelled to find
another pet that reminds you of the one you just lost. In
reality, it is best to grieve the loss of one pet before getting
another, and the length of that grief process varies widely from
person to person. Be sure that you honestly feel ready to
welcome a new pet with the time, attention, and affection it
deserves. It may help to be around other animals by
volunteering at an animal shelter or walking a friend's dog first.
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